Identity Recalibration &
Nervous System Balancing
With Nickita Starck
I’m Nickita, a trauma-informed identity recalibrator, nervous system specialist, and creator of transformational spaces for high-functioning leaders who are secretly exhausted.
I’ve guided global conversations, supported powerful transitions, and held space for women and leaders to come home to themselves. What I offer isn’t coaching or therapy. It’s not more strategy or mindset. It’s a return to who you really are beneath the pressure, so you can lead from clarity, not survival.
For Business Leaders
Leadership Without the Noise
On the surface, things are working, but inside, there’s a pressure that never quite lifts. Most leaders don’t burn out because they’re weak. They burn out because they’re leading from a state they didn’t choose, a survival pattern wired into their nervous system.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness. We all build masks to stay safe.
We all lead from patterns we didn’t choose. But when you can see them, really see them, you’re no longer led by them.
This work helps you recalibrate your internal state, so you can make decisions with clarity, hold boundaries without tension, and show up without over-performing.
This is what self-led leadership looks like. Not more effort. Just less noise.
Birth Work
Where It All Begins
Birth is the foundation.
How we enter the world shapes everything that follows, our nervous systems, our sense of safety, even our identity.
I founded When Push Comes to Shove to help women reclaim their power in pregnancy and birth.
From parent education to doula training, trauma healing to legal rights, this work centres on informed choice, physiological truth, and embodied sovereignty.
If you’re preparing to give birth, training to support others, or recovering from a birth experience that left a mark, you’ll find what you need here.
Inner Alchemy
Deep healing for Those in Transition
From £150
Some people don’t come to me as business leaders.
They come because they’re tired of carrying so much.
Because the therapy didn’t land. The mindset tools didn’t touch it. And the emotions keep looping underneath it all.
This work is different. It’s gentle, deep, and anchored in safety.
We work with the body, not just the story, to shift survival patterns, rebuild nervous system capacity, and meet the parts of you that never felt held.
Grief, anxiety, identity loss, exhaustion, even physical symptoms, all of it is welcome here.
You don’t need fixing. You just need space to come home to yourself.
These sessions aren’t about talking it through. They’re about feeling it through, safely, slowly, with full presence.
My Substack
Words that Land Where They’re Meant To
I write about the things we’re not supposed to talk about, trauma, identity, leadership, love, grief, embodiment, awakening. Not to teach, but to remember. It’s clarity. It’s the place where the noise drops and something deeper opens. If you’ve ever read something and felt your whole body say yes, that’s the space this writing lives in.
You’ll find my blog on Substack.
You can read for free or join the Awakened Self Healers circle for deeper access.
“Wow Nickita, You make complex issues much easier to digest for people willing to look inside of
themselves. You speak from your heart and are very coherent in the subjects you are
discussing. It is really easy listening to you as your words are creating a story that is
easy to follow and understand, you flow!”
“Wow Nickita, You make complex issues much easier to digest for people willing to look inside of
themselves. You speak from your heart and are very coherent in the subjects you are
discussing. It is really easy listening to you as your words are creating a story that is
easy to follow and understand, you flow!”
“Wow Nickita, You make complex issues much easier to digest for people willing to look inside of
themselves. You speak from your heart and are very coherent in the subjects you are
discussing. It is really easy listening to you as your words are creating a story that is
easy to follow and understand, you flow!”